tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18368194426823066232024-03-13T03:59:37.187-05:00Cupid's RealityAN OPEN FORUM ON RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX FROM A NEW PERSPECTIVE.Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.comBlogger77125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-60677779471084594582011-07-04T14:10:00.003-05:002011-07-24T17:24:47.651-05:00The Art of Deception<em>Meet Nicole, a 28 year old Houston native. On the outside she seems to be every man’s dream. She’s young, gorgeous and driven but everything isn’t always what it seems. CR journeys inside the mind of a “female playa” and reveals why the deception of sugar and spice is everything but nice...</em><br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: What were your thoughts on our "Ladies Man" post? <br />
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<strong>NP</strong>: I wasn't surprised by the ladies man post. I somewhat expect that any "single" man would be seeing multiple women... Although I still wouldn't want to be one of many.<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: How many men are you currently seeing?<br />
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<strong>NP</strong>: How many men am I seeing? Well I'm "doing" two but I really like one. The other is just a guaranteed orgasm. No potential for much else there at all.<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: Do you think they suspect they are being played. If not, why?<br />
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<strong>NP</strong>: I'm not playing anyone. I'm not in a relationship with either. The one that I really like probably assumes I "date" but most guys put me in a "good girl" box and tend to put a lot past me. The one whom it’s just sex with knows I date other people. We have somewhat of an understanding. I couldn’t care less if he dates others because he's not someone I'd want a relationship from. No steady job, baby mamas, smokes etc... He just serves as a pseudo BF when needed.<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: Have you ever been faithful to those whom you <em>have</em> committed to?<br />
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<strong>NP</strong>: I've been faithful to 1 guy. Surprising it was a sexless relationship by his choice that lasted about 6 months. I tried relentlessly to temp him but it never worked. I guess I didn't cheat because I found a challenge within the relationship to focus on. I cheated on my last boyfriend numerous times but that was only because he continually cheated. I still wanted to be with him for some odd reason and found revenge in knowing he would never in a million years suspect that his "good girl" would step out. I was careful to maintain that innocence by not bringing the new tricks I learned into the bedroom or I would allow him to think he was teaching me. If we commit I wouldn't cheat. I'd try not to at least [laughed].<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: Do you always cheat with a motive and /or out of spite?<br />
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<strong>NP</strong>: I've only been in 3, maybe 4 committed relationships and I was faithful to 1. My motives for cheating weren’t always revengeful. For example, I cheated on my high school sweetheart towards the end of our 4 yr relationship which resulted in someone else taking my virginity but that situation just happened. I didn't plan it and felt really bad afterwards. I definitely don't go into relationships expecting to cheat and I have been in a situation where a guy cheated and I just ended it instead of doing the same.<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: Do you cheat because <em>you</em> lack or because your partner lacks?<br />
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<strong>NP</strong>: Interesting question. I have had very few partners that satisfied me sexually, probably only 2 to be honest. The guys I've cheated with weren't always better than my significant other. I've had a lot of "one hitters" meaning I never went back for seconds because they were just a waste! I can't say that I've purposely cheated because my partner lacked but I've cheated with the guy I'm "doing" now before because he's just a guaranteed good fuck! When I'm in a relationship, the emotional connection makes up for sexual performance in most cases because as a woman I still crave and desire that. If I cheat for sexual satisfaction, it’s just that, sex.<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: If you had to choose three things a man must posses to keep you from cheating what would it be? <br />
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<strong>NP</strong>: Hmmmm. Never gave much thought to what would prevent me from cheating. I'd say passion in all aspects of the word within the relationship, time and genuine commitment from him. Ironic, I know.<br />
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<em>(Want to comment? 1. Click comment 2. Click Name/URL 3.Type a name of your choice 4.Submit)</em>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-75975788257605357862011-07-04T14:10:00.001-05:002011-07-04T14:10:45.861-05:00Marry, Murder, Smash<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2URY39-RWFKuLhHPXx63M7SA0dXRCTt7reUFwsB64b9oqcH5-mv87uy7_Vhci0UssxbFNBb6ixppMbQJXhsXgyhML3SMjK9tdyx5Bmr74Pxbzh047TGCdyqadZHtWLoJXdaoeJ-8PzKk/s1600/barack_michelle_obama.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200px" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2URY39-RWFKuLhHPXx63M7SA0dXRCTt7reUFwsB64b9oqcH5-mv87uy7_Vhci0UssxbFNBb6ixppMbQJXhsXgyhML3SMjK9tdyx5Bmr74Pxbzh047TGCdyqadZHtWLoJXdaoeJ-8PzKk/s200/barack_michelle_obama.jpg" t8="true" width="145px" /></a></div>In this segment, we will name three celebrities that are well known. Simply comment and tell us your personal prefrence if you had to choose, would you MARRY them, MURDER them or SEX them crazy...enjoy!<br />
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LADIES: IDRIS ELBA, BARACK OBAMA & BORRIS KOJOE<br />
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(Want to comment? 1. click comment 2. click annonmous 3. Type name 4. submit)Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-33638078033432050252011-06-24T18:00:00.000-05:002011-06-24T18:00:41.437-05:00Girl Talk<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivc2LOAZSgxyPOpCDg1j7REC_i05T5CL0rG1Kn7HzQNiCwAmkLr3JwYto-JbQKqvdi60CnDpe5kvqrJlPyQ4OP5ZH79MOudzKSI5sBwdz5SkVmW2gwi0z79g1ND1c9itLJBkKyiyFot0U/s1600/girltalk-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180px" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivc2LOAZSgxyPOpCDg1j7REC_i05T5CL0rG1Kn7HzQNiCwAmkLr3JwYto-JbQKqvdi60CnDpe5kvqrJlPyQ4OP5ZH79MOudzKSI5sBwdz5SkVmW2gwi0z79g1ND1c9itLJBkKyiyFot0U/s200/girltalk-1.jpg" t8="true" width="200px" /></a></div>We were watching a reality show the other day. One of the female characters in this show decided she has been waiting far too long for a proposal so she took matters into her own hands and prosposed to her man instead. The 6 of us girls were in complete agreement when we said HELL NO we wont propose. But we are interested in knowing what the readers think... Is it sexy, empowering or just plain desperate when a woman proposes to her man????Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-38042037688448146232011-06-24T17:59:00.000-05:002011-06-24T17:59:58.817-05:00Cupid's Chronicle: On to The Next One:: Bria<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh88gtOqRsiKIED0z1sYH_NJ-OBL1PDcG0Uy4fbuAVUYMgX_mBgX9km9HLN6uFKaM9d_oOlIp-U1DTrbfyEVQFBtCuZA3rVbehYhX_QfBgGEnctB9CoJv9OOdv_NcExXw3jxpnt7UkJ3yk/s1600/bad+date.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="139px" i$="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh88gtOqRsiKIED0z1sYH_NJ-OBL1PDcG0Uy4fbuAVUYMgX_mBgX9km9HLN6uFKaM9d_oOlIp-U1DTrbfyEVQFBtCuZA3rVbehYhX_QfBgGEnctB9CoJv9OOdv_NcExXw3jxpnt7UkJ3yk/s200/bad+date.jpg" width="200px" /></a></div>The dating adventures have begun and as promised I will be chronicling them here.<br />
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Ok. So I gave someone my number whom I wasn't really attracted to in the first place but I decided to not be as shallow as I can be and give him a shot. After weeks of sporadic text msgs initiated by him that never led to much conversation he mustered up the courage to ask me out.<br />
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I agreed to meet him at a restaurant and immediately chuckled discretely after seeing him in his "get up". He had on the tightest v-neck shirt that practically dipped all the way down to his belly button and displayed his nipples through the shirt (it was a bit chilly I guess). His pants was just as tight and I was annoyed at the loafers with no socks bid. He stood up to greet me with a hug and I realized for the first time how skinny this dude was! Like Marc Anthony-skeletor skinny. His personality needed to seriously woo me if he hoped to peak my interest.<br />
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No luck there! He kept talking about extravagant things that he used to have and places he had lived before and blah blah blah. I tuned him out and started thinking about my "potential" and our last sexual encounter. Which drifted off into further fantasies and resulted in me chiming in and out of skeletor's rant about himself with empty "that's interestings" and a few "reallys". I was relieved when he took a restroom break! I took the opportunity to ask the waiter to bring the check so I can wrap things up. As he walked me to my car he tried to invite himself over to continue the conversation I wasn't even participating in. I declined, thanked him for dinner and said I'd call which I had no intention on doing. On to the next one...Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-51463097020507718582011-06-20T10:13:00.000-05:002011-06-20T10:13:03.898-05:00Debate of the Week: 6/20/11<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjz5zAzoLhe7H4IB7M-QaOxNaWdKkJ4cRvQwU2Cs7Suwsx8Kr5C0gG1EtE3MC7ILuQPyi68VVE6Yyu0CL6V3jLtbyZ2lR8lg-JIfVorjaLBQiejLL0gpumKOvUQFQAy-M3Ciz_nqRdrHOE/s1600/prenup.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" i$="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjz5zAzoLhe7H4IB7M-QaOxNaWdKkJ4cRvQwU2Cs7Suwsx8Kr5C0gG1EtE3MC7ILuQPyi68VVE6Yyu0CL6V3jLtbyZ2lR8lg-JIfVorjaLBQiejLL0gpumKOvUQFQAy-M3Ciz_nqRdrHOE/s1600/prenup.bmp" /></a></div>So, you finally meet the person of your dreams. The person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You've met tons of others but no one compares to this special person. BUT you are doing very well for yourself financially and considered having your future spouse sign a prenuptial agreement. Many would say a prenup is simply a safety net, a way of saying "just in case" while others would argue one shouldn't walk down the aisle with a "just in case" in mind. <strong>So does a prenup contradict a marriage that is intended to last forever?</strong><br />
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This is the romantic, passionate, stars-in-the-eyes phase. The sex is good and there is never enough of it. This doesn't happen for all couples but as a rule, this strong attraction stage is laced with thinking about and wanting to be with, your new love.<br />
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<strong>Phase 2: Accommodation (O.K, so love isn't perfect)</strong><br />
Even Romeo and Juliet had they been married, would have had to deal with the day-to-day realities. In the Accommodation Stage roles are established, expectations are set and compromises are made. It is here that disillusionment sets in and power struggles become evident. The other person's habits, needs, anger and withdrawal patterns become uncomfortably clear. Intense conflict has the potential for developing during this stage. It is most advantageous to learn about problem solving, conflict management and communication during this stage.<br />
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<a name='more'></a><strong>Phase 3: The Challenge (Trouble in paradise)</strong><br />
A couple doesn't really know how strong a relationship is until they deal with the challenges that life brings. Whether it is starting a new job, unemployment or the unfortunate occurrence of an accident or family illness, we all face challenges in life. The Challenge Stage lets the partners know what they can expect from each other during these demanding times.<br />
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Children and family crises are important factors during this stage. Each partner sets their own rules and expectations for raising children and how extended family issues should be handled. The challenge here is to be aware of this fact and find a successful compromise in meeting each other's rules and expectations.<br />
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During the Challenge Phase there is a certain amount of disillusionment. The relationship is not what it was dreamed to be and one or both partners may be increasingly attracted to other people of the opposite sex. Sometimes, there is fantasizing about past loves. This is a time when the relationship is very vulnerable to unfaithfulness. How couples deal with this phase will determine the direction that it will take in the Crossroads Phase.<br />
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<strong>Phase 4: The Crossroads (What do I do at this stage of my life?)</strong><br />
Once couples reach this stage they have already experienced some challenges (e.g. medical or money problems) and now other life decisions will have to be made (e.g. to have children, where to live, how to spend money). This stage is different from the Challenge Phase because a number of challenges have already occurred and the couple has learned how each other responds in these situations. The emotional patterns of each are clear and they have established patterns of dealing with their differences. It is common for problems to arise in this stage, but because you have already experienced a great many shared challenges, you stand the best chance of working through these issues and getting to the Rebirth Stage. The three most common negative patterns for individuals to engage in during this stage are:<br />
-Being resigned to sticking with the bad decision of staying in the relationship; <br />
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<strong>Phase 5: Rebirth (New marriage)</strong><br />
It is estimated that only 15% of all couples reach this stage. At this point, folks have figured out "the real person" they have married. To achieve it they will have successfully dealt with the Accommodation, Challenge and Crossroads Stages. In this phase, couples learn how and when to compromise and they truly (not on the surface) accept areas of differences with minimum resentment. In this stage couples learn to re-appreciate and re-love each other.Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-39022139721999213672011-06-17T09:00:00.011-05:002011-06-20T09:45:39.354-05:00Laugh of the Week!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDEZYvTEIxHQMabi4k4IqqtmZ9vdtyE30REC5YT57iQ04ld-44egappEy6jtfMQ1d4p4bSBe6oSPa5d_jC9e8K8rCo3VTdtWsRS9cFcRp0ygIrQeeU3cIWlfV-UDTKkGtiFyvBYyFKtcU/s1600/laugh.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="196px" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDEZYvTEIxHQMabi4k4IqqtmZ9vdtyE30REC5YT57iQ04ld-44egappEy6jtfMQ1d4p4bSBe6oSPa5d_jC9e8K8rCo3VTdtWsRS9cFcRp0ygIrQeeU3cIWlfV-UDTKkGtiFyvBYyFKtcU/s200/laugh.jpg" t8="true" width="200px" /></a></div>I was thinking about the worst date I 've ever had and while there are quite a few runner ups, this particular date wins HANDS DOWN! My date set very definitive plans including my meeting him at his home by 8:00pm. I drive to his home and soon find out that it was actually the home of his cousin. That was fine with me, my bad for assumming right?! We go inside the house and my date informs me that he is currently without transportation. He was extremely embarrassed and apologetic so I let it go. He goes on to say his older cousin will be driving us to the resturaunt he selected for the evening and picking us up as well! I was speechless, but his cousin was everything but. The cousin comes down the stairs yelling at my date saying he can drop us off but he WILL NOT pick us up! I was so ashamed and I didn't even do anything wrong! In the end I was a good sport. I drove us to the closest resturaunt I could find. My date continued to apologize the enitre ride home but some things are unforgivable. Needless to say we never spoke again. So lets hear it readers! WHAT'S THE WORST DATE YOU'VE EVER BEEN ON? Make us laugh but be brief!<br />
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<em>(Want to Comment? 1. click 'comment' 2. click 'Name/URL' 3. Type a bogus name 4. click 'Post')</em>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-29060806020056571702011-06-15T13:35:00.001-05:002011-06-15T14:20:19.748-05:00Spotlight: Poet Janette...Ikz<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.youtube.com/embed/igCj3jsbcqs?feature=player_embedded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div>So I came across this awesome christian poet and had to share! Her words are laced with wisdom and humor that give her poems life. This specific poem focuses on the struggles of a single woman! A-MAZE-ING!Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-38343301310685891122011-06-15T13:24:00.000-05:002011-06-15T13:24:33.515-05:00Three is a crowd.<em>Meet Rebecca, a 25 year old real estate agent who is caught in a love triangle. Many would consider her "the other woman" but you may walk away thinking differently after reading this interview. CR sat down and spoke candidly with this intellectual beauty and captured her perspective...</em> <br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: How long was it into your current "relationship" before you discovered he already had a girlfriend?<br />
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<strong>Rebecca</strong>: It was about seven weeks into the relationship when I started to be concerned. I discovered her presence, but I wasn't exactly sure of the status of the relationship. When I confronted him about it, he assured me that she was not his girlfriend. Initially I bought into the lie. But, after I started to see her "around" more and more I knew what the deal was. <br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: Did you consider getting out of the situation before emotions got any deeper?<br />
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<strong>Rebecca</strong>: I contemplated my next move and at the end of the day I liked dating this guy. I have a lot of fun with him and he treats me like I want to be treated. So, I made the decision to allow him to believe that I actually believed his lie. Sad to say but, I got to the point of wanting to knock the "girlfriend" out of the picture. My frame of mind was that if she had as much control over him as she thought then he would not be so easy for the taking. <br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: Do you think he is really “easy for the taking” or that is part of his strategy to keep both women?<br />
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<strong>Rebecca</strong>: He definitely plays the game right, making it more difficult for my plan of attack. If he happens to be in the same space as her and I, he makes sure to give me, my time. And because of that, him and her would usually start arguing and end up leaving the scene. He’s never admitted to me that she is his girlfriend...but I never expected him to. At the end of the day, a lie is only as good as the amount of time you can keep it going...and that is exactly what he is doing.<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: Do you consider yourself "the other woman"?<br />
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<strong>Rebecca</strong>: No, I do not consider myself the other woman. To be perfectly honest I don't have a real legitimate reason why I don't. I guess because he puts in all the effort in making sure I don't see him acting a certain way with her, I don't necessarily look at myself as the other woman. If that was who I was, then things would unfold differently because I would openly tolerate more and he would be more blatant about certain things.<br />
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<strong>CR</strong>: If things work out your way, how does this story end?<br />
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<strong>Rebecca</strong>: That is a very difficult question to answer. So let me start by stating that we clearly would have trust issues given the circumstances. However, I would be lying if I said I am not interested in taking steps toward something permanent with him. So I guess the best way to answer the question is to say that in my fairy tale world we would be exclusively together.<br />
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A wise man (my ex) once told me that within 15 minutes of meeting a woman, a man has placed her in a "category". Now, these categories change with each man pending on what stage of life he is in. For instance, for the man who just got out of a long term relationship, the category of "wifey" may not be an option, no matter how well the woman carries herself, because he is not willing to commit again at this point in his life. Categories can range from “friend”, wifey””, “freak”, “let’s see where this goes” to party girl etc. According to my ex, just a brief conversation with him has placed you in your rightful category. I asked him if a woman can start off in one category and move to another. His answer...Absolutely, but its easier to be promoted from the “friend” category than it is to move up from the "freak" or “wacko”. He ended this theory by saying first impressions are everything. When a man walks in with you on his arm he wants other men to think "Damn, I wouldn’t mind her being my girl” vs. "Damn, I’m going to fuck his girl". So CR readers, do you think there is some validity to this category theory???Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-53447654248777771612011-06-15T13:18:00.000-05:002011-06-15T13:18:04.702-05:00Spotlight: The Bright Side<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinIQi1yaBxiWaUFu6kKNTWCxumaQu388GHpV_cQtS3JDHSm5Y6f62LYCDubGGUmjl82sswFWvQBv6QsOzAsuv1ATZf_D1D7bbQV-FXEA1R8Ya6l0CepbVI6OYqfpOufb8uRXcoA079LYk/s1600/reisha.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200px" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinIQi1yaBxiWaUFu6kKNTWCxumaQu388GHpV_cQtS3JDHSm5Y6f62LYCDubGGUmjl82sswFWvQBv6QsOzAsuv1ATZf_D1D7bbQV-FXEA1R8Ya6l0CepbVI6OYqfpOufb8uRXcoA079LYk/s200/reisha.jpg" t8="true" width="133px" /></a></div>CR would like to place the spotlight on this amazing blog entitled "The Bright Side". Author and creator, Reisha Beaty is an avid supporter of CR and decided to create her own blog tracking her personal dating life. If you're in need of a gasp or laugh check out her entertaining blog! <a href="http://madnessatitsbest.blogspot.com/"><span style="color: blue;">http://madnessatitsbest.blogspot.com</span></a>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-63244183133011888792011-06-13T14:59:00.000-05:002011-06-13T14:59:43.899-05:00Cupid's Chronicle: Life on the Side Line.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXis9p9W_hom19DkzI_8vxKgz_74Zw-vTWIIoEq-42vGRWilb7ECvchrDj_JDIP2F8QPN-If22_rFK9ZN7VktJUegg7W_BJdbZ7gU6PGnVBQpyCvdQHj_QqTasbxIX_CNu8zt-PbkKOwY/s1600/bored+girl.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="222px" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXis9p9W_hom19DkzI_8vxKgz_74Zw-vTWIIoEq-42vGRWilb7ECvchrDj_JDIP2F8QPN-If22_rFK9ZN7VktJUegg7W_BJdbZ7gU6PGnVBQpyCvdQHj_QqTasbxIX_CNu8zt-PbkKOwY/s320/bored+girl.jpg" t8="true" width="320px" /></a></div><em>Cupid’s Chronicle is back in a new way! This time we’re placing the spot light on Bria a 28 year old Houstonian beauty. She is freeing herself from a past of heartbreak and long term relationships and taking on single life in the big city! Read her weekly updates and buckle up for the ride…</em><br />
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Pretty interesting headline but it sums up my situation best. I met my ex when I was 19. The relationship grew into something very serious very quickly. Within a month we were in a committed relationship although in retrospect he was not ready to give up the chicks that were existent prior to my arrival. So very soon into relationship I began to receive phone calls from the "side chicks" detailing their sexual encounters with MY boyfriend. I was hurt, mad and upset each time I caught him cheating but stayed partly because I viewed these women as "side chicks" who weren't receiving the same benefits I was getting as the "main chick". They didn't meet his family, go on dinner dates, drive his car, or get their tuition paid. Needless to say the relationship lasted about 4 years too long and ended when he got one of his "side chicks" pregnant.<br />
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It’s safe to say there are some significant differences found in men and women of the millennium vs. the 1920's. The evolution of genders is astounding. It seems "independence" is now being worn as a pendent of pride by many of our women and encouraged by most men. Specifically, women are becoming 'bread winners', claiming cooperate positions formerly dominated by men and utilizing the microwave far more than the oven. While many men are more than willing to pass the tab on a dinner date, and content with being "stay at home dads". Does our society's embrace of independence and intermingling of gender roles work against an ultimate goal of developing a successful union between two individuals? <br />
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In other words: Can you have a successful relationship/marriage without "traditional" gender roles.<br />
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<span style="color: black;">CC asked me to sum up my love life and say goodbye to you all! I am sad to know I won't be able to vent with you all anymore lol. But on to the JUICE!!! I am still single and had been going on some dates but that all came to a screeching hault when...I got burnt! I swear I could not make this up if I wanted to! Okay, before you get all grossed out I must say it wasn't one of the major STD's but a common one caused by bacteria usually carried by the male. It has some long drawn out name but the street term is "trick". So I had a crazy night of sex with this guy I've actually know for about a year. We've made out in the past but never really went past that until last month. I must say I went into a major depression after my "discovery". I even considered "switching to the other side". I was so against men I actually thought about becoming a lesbian!! Long story short, getting a sexually transmitted desease was the best thing that could have ever happen to me! lol I am completely changed. I use to feel down about being single and sexually frustrated but now I realize there are worse things that could happen. Okay, here is the part where you will all be mad at me...I didn't tell him he gave me a STD. I just couldn't bring myself to do it! For some reason even though HE was the one who gave it to ME I still didn't want him to think I was some dirty chick who doesn't take care of herself! I promise within the next 2 months I will get the nerve to tell him. He should know so he doesn't go around giving "it" to anyone else. Anyway, Thank you guys for being my therapists. I'm considering starting my own blog so I hope CC will keep you guys posted! Have a happy 2010!!!!</span>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-70477685062886746992010-02-03T21:12:00.015-06:002011-06-15T13:16:40.003-05:00Cupid's Chronicle: Casting Call!!!!<span style="font-family: inherit;">New look, New Cast!!! We are looking for 3 Houston singles to send in their personal accounts of single life in Houston. We are looking for spicy, attention grabbing love lives that will keep our readers coming back for more! We will make up your name and keep your identity a secret. Just send a quick briefing of your current love life to www.info@cupidscousinagency.com</span>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-58934956826773423832010-02-03T20:06:00.001-06:002010-02-03T20:07:35.068-06:00Girl Talk<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh53DsXdwTbWpaXDEVbVMgSNUCZK6aWqwpOkBxOytfx0Ii8dVIp4wl_mYKScWG4UjJ8vX8OEdtMd0WE19UNOvbKbJmTq0-_hQLgLVt8o2PjVUW70lLnzfAeDOiHMBN6MfZ91EnSVbWCErE/s1600-h/girltalk-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" kt="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh53DsXdwTbWpaXDEVbVMgSNUCZK6aWqwpOkBxOytfx0Ii8dVIp4wl_mYKScWG4UjJ8vX8OEdtMd0WE19UNOvbKbJmTq0-_hQLgLVt8o2PjVUW70lLnzfAeDOiHMBN6MfZ91EnSVbWCErE/s320/girltalk-1.jpg" /></a></div><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Houston we have a problem!!! So one of our beautiful 6 divas recently received a jaw dropping phone call from her 'on again/off again' beaux. This phone call created quite the convo because it touched on the 'no-no' topic....A woman's weight!!!!!! So he calls her just to catch up and after a while, the conversation leads to her weight. Now, we may be biased but our girl is hot!!! Yes, she is thick but her waist is so much smaller than anything else on her body! That automaticlly equals a brick house right?!...WRONG? He told her he has known her for 7 years and if she hadn't gained the weight she has he would have married her a long time ago!! Talk about a gut punch!!! We were all taken aback. Everytime we all go out she NEVER has trouble attracting men. So he continues on to say he allows her to get on top during sex because, to be frank, it feels good but afterwards his back is in excruciating pain days later!!! It's a good thing to be honest but he was brutal!!! So we don't know how to feel about this. Is he a jerk or is he just helping? Should she lose weight or keep doing her thing? </span>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-42266269476130428712009-11-29T10:45:00.001-06:002009-11-29T10:47:20.512-06:00The Breakdown: What Type of Woman Are You?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlshuoUArB2UqGGkjLHN_dfN0sOAz7xzxPmHdE701ERQkeOHbOTfsIevoIFAklzc4ziaXKI4HUO0XgJCpfvNLjyoXSMvpuCkMAxTwjVbp2Gx7eQgyedPG52iZbTcBKefOy2WxOzXQzIoE/s1600/feather+4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlshuoUArB2UqGGkjLHN_dfN0sOAz7xzxPmHdE701ERQkeOHbOTfsIevoIFAklzc4ziaXKI4HUO0XgJCpfvNLjyoXSMvpuCkMAxTwjVbp2Gx7eQgyedPG52iZbTcBKefOy2WxOzXQzIoE/s320/feather+4.jpg" yr="true" /></a><br />
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Rescuer Anthem: 'Clean up Woman'<br />
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Rescuing and fixing your man will make you feel indespensable and secure in your belief that as long as he needs you, he'll always love you too. But take a closer look and you'll spot the serious side effects of this safety-seeking love substitute. Rescuing and fixing always leave the Rescuer feeling:<br />
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-Alone. He will soak up the goodies, but never change his ways, and never manage to give back as much as you give out. Or he will soak up the goodies, get fixed and walk away from the woman he "needs" towards the one he wants.<br />
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- Resented. Your fixing will eventually make him feel needy and dependent, so he'll reject, ignore, or show no appreciation for your efforts.<br />
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- Exhausted. He will become addicted to your rescuing and fixing, and progress to demanding more and more of it--- ultimately more than you can possibly give.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">The above are excerpts from pages 29-30 of the book <em>How to Love a Black Man</em> written by Dr. Ronn Elmore</span>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-27221886373609822542009-11-29T10:24:00.000-06:002009-11-29T10:24:17.653-06:00The Locker Room<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigmYMLn8Yhxg05lKK2HrdLIxDJkxdXCj1GBzMb2ALTNeQdTwMtbMK-9I90ku9ArLMhStjEA3qJ-b5fjc0374n1RGQrHm-DldkrBmGMrcoReHJ_iZNpwJcy7K-sPCLKoex-FyCc3xiE_UE/s1600/football.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigmYMLn8Yhxg05lKK2HrdLIxDJkxdXCj1GBzMb2ALTNeQdTwMtbMK-9I90ku9ArLMhStjEA3qJ-b5fjc0374n1RGQrHm-DldkrBmGMrcoReHJ_iZNpwJcy7K-sPCLKoex-FyCc3xiE_UE/s200/football.jpg" yr="true" /></a><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">We hope everyone had a wonderful Thankgiving but now it's time to get back to Cupid's Reality!!! </span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;"> CC sat down with four professional atheletes and I must say Houston ladies have made quite the name for themselves in the world of atheletes. These ballers say that atheletes know to hide their wallets when they come to Houston! That's right ladies, Houston women have the reputation of being GOLD DIGGERS!!!! These hot atheletes say they know a gold digger from a mile away and Houston is their nest. On the brighter side, They did mention that New York, California and Houston have some of the most beautful women in the U.S.A. but when it comes to handing out the best body award....Houston wins hands down!!!! So to summarize this interview: Houston women are beautiful with the bodies of greek goddesses but you have to pay to play! Now I must say, I've witnessed quite a few "opportunist" in Houston and beautiful ones at that! But don't put us in a box fellas there are some good ones out here as well!!! </span>Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-7701927636980678512009-11-29T10:03:00.000-06:002009-11-29T10:03:23.047-06:00Cupid's Proverb<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbuV0s7oRuGSpyO8CgZUvSjWU5sNiUIvJLGSZk01XUhAszl6xO1RvGSB2YLSGKpzdRfG5vnNkPfkHmRl-DNW5LorB1bSFH7tFocleTpRUWV_wXKWfVIz3fdzMU-os9v7L0nrPgJWONthM/s1600/cc+feather.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbuV0s7oRuGSpyO8CgZUvSjWU5sNiUIvJLGSZk01XUhAszl6xO1RvGSB2YLSGKpzdRfG5vnNkPfkHmRl-DNW5LorB1bSFH7tFocleTpRUWV_wXKWfVIz3fdzMU-os9v7L0nrPgJWONthM/s200/cc+feather.jpg" yr="true" /></a><br />
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<strong><span style="color: lime;">#5: Don't be too friendly, ugh</span></strong><br />
- Well, if you discuss topics that friends discuss, then she will classify you as a friend. Yes, relationships should grow into full-fledged partnerships, but this is not so at the beginning. And if this isn't enough, she will tell you stories about all of the other men she likes and is pursuing.<br />
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<strong><span style="color: lime;">#4: Keep her guessing</span></strong><br />
- Women like mystery. Now, CC is not saying that you should lie to them, nor are we saying that you should play games, but you should leave something hidden. Feed her a little at a time, keep her guessing!<br />
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<strong><span style="color: lime;">#3: Do NOT make the first move</span></strong><br />
- So, show some interest -- this is the bait after all -- but keep your cards to your chest instead of slamming your two-of-a-kind on the table. Who knows? You may end up with a full house if you're patient.<br />
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<strong><span style="color: lime;">#2: Be the Best you can be</span><br />
</strong>- No, do not join the army, even though women like men in uniform. Rather, make sure you smell good, have fresh breath, are well-groomed, and look your best. Yes, some women do not care about looks, especially when your bank account swells to the seven-digits. However, the same way that men demand their women be good-looking, women demand and deserve the same. You have been warned.<br />
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<strong><span style="color: lime;">#1: Manage her expectations</span><br />
</strong>- Making her come to you is the easy part; keeping her is the real challenge. When you meet your dream woman, be honest with yourself and her: Do not portray yourself in a different light. Call it like it is and you will avoid headaches and misery down the road. Most importantly, she will see that you are being genuine, sincere and honest, and she will, therefore, want you by her side forever.Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-33090057598222923212009-11-23T21:59:00.015-06:002009-11-23T22:44:04.635-06:00Damn! You smell good!<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #3d85c6;">Here are some hot scents for you to smell your best! We all know that after Thanksgiving your are full, tired, and overwhelmed...but you always find time to par-tay!!! Make sure you don't smell like stuffing, so here are our suggestions:</span><br />
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<em>Scent Type #1: Citrus/Green</em><br />
<strong><span style="font-size: large;">Géranium pour Monsieur</span></strong><br />
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</div>Stay away from straight-up lemon, which can suggest furniture polish. Instead, try Géranium pour Monsieur. The geranium essence is boosted by mint, giving the impression of citrus without the cleaning-product hit, plus a green that's less lawn-mower clippings and more tender young grapevine.<br />
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<div style="text-align: left;"><em>Scent Type #2: Woodsy</em><br />
</div><strong><span style="font-size: large;">La Nuit de L'Homme</span></strong><br />
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</div>If the men in your office still wear fat ties, consider the most conservative class in scentdom. YSL's newest version of L'Homme, La Nuit de L'Homme, has a subdued core structure with wood scents that read solid, burnt and aromatic spices that read clean. Very Edgey!<br />
2 oz, $55<br />
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<em>Scent type #3: Fresh</em><br />
<strong><span style="font-size: large;">Sean John I Am King</span></strong><br />
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Citrus fizz, fruity and delicious, where you least expect it. Underneath that is a pretty traditional masculine scent, but the top notes make this a great burst of summer on a man.<br />
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<em>Scent Type #4: Earthy</em> <br />
<strong><span style="font-size: large;">Tauer Scents Lonestar Memories</span></strong> <br />
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</div>50 ml, $100Cupid's Realityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14079719197320400618noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1836819442682306623.post-42202031688192759572009-11-19T12:06:00.002-06:002009-11-19T12:08:30.191-06:00Sex Tips from Guys to Girls!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivBVxAP8ObfL_H2a6LqDw0Twa1LhCiR6iZxRBTAsqh-eyI2c5EZ5wd25SKkrZzIkya4QAJVnQV5kFxdYLeuNGDifVoe6bo_9kFc1T8j499ot8FTVZ6MmmP1NRVi7ZAk9JMQLuIvZi0lX8/s1600/shhh.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivBVxAP8ObfL_H2a6LqDw0Twa1LhCiR6iZxRBTAsqh-eyI2c5EZ5wd25SKkrZzIkya4QAJVnQV5kFxdYLeuNGDifVoe6bo_9kFc1T8j499ot8FTVZ6MmmP1NRVi7ZAk9JMQLuIvZi0lX8/s200/shhh.jpg" yr="true" /></a><br />
</div><span style="font-size: large;">GET HIM RILED UP:</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"I can't be the only guys who loves when a woman licks that soft patch of skin in front of my ears" -Jamie 23</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"Wet your lips and moan that you can't wait to taste me" -Sam 22</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"An ex came to bed in a soakin gwet white t-shirt. The sight was jaw dropping" -Nick 30</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"Seeing a woman's lips glide over the neck of a beer bottle always make me think of her mouth on me" -Ty 21</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">FEISTY FOREPLAY:</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"Reach into your panties and touch my lips with your wetness" -Troy 28</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"My girl held my tongue in place with her teeth during a make out session while she tickled her own tongue. Electrifying!" -Howard 30</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"When I put my finger in my girl, she inserted one of her digits too so I could feel our fingers together. Blow on it" -Beck 33</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">HANDS DOWN THERE DOMAIN</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"Pull my pants down to my thighs. This limits my ability to move, and I'll feel like your captive" -Thad 27</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"Brush your teeth with minty toothpaste before going down on me. It'll feel extra shivery" -Patrick 24</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"While giving me oral, most chicks stop as soon as I reach my peak. But this one woman keep her lips on me through my climax. It was heavenly" -Chuck 27</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">"Rub my piece against your lips like you're applying lipstick" -Henry 23</span><br />
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MORE TO COME....<br />
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