Meet Rebecca, a 25 year old real estate agent who is caught in a love triangle. Many would consider her "the other woman" but you may walk away thinking differently after reading this interview. CR sat down and spoke candidly with this intellectual beauty and captured her perspective...
CR: How long was it into your current "relationship" before you discovered he already had a girlfriend?
Rebecca: It was about seven weeks into the relationship when I started to be concerned. I discovered her presence, but I wasn't exactly sure of the status of the relationship. When I confronted him about it, he assured me that she was not his girlfriend. Initially I bought into the lie. But, after I started to see her "around" more and more I knew what the deal was.
CR: Did you consider getting out of the situation before emotions got any deeper?
Rebecca: I contemplated my next move and at the end of the day I liked dating this guy. I have a lot of fun with him and he treats me like I want to be treated. So, I made the decision to allow him to believe that I actually believed his lie. Sad to say but, I got to the point of wanting to knock the "girlfriend" out of the picture. My frame of mind was that if she had as much control over him as she thought then he would not be so easy for the taking.
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CR: Do you think he is really “easy for the taking” or that is part of his strategy to keep both women?
Rebecca: He definitely plays the game right, making it more difficult for my plan of attack. If he happens to be in the same space as her and I, he makes sure to give me, my time. And because of that, him and her would usually start arguing and end up leaving the scene. He’s never admitted to me that she is his girlfriend...but I never expected him to. At the end of the day, a lie is only as good as the amount of time you can keep it going...and that is exactly what he is doing.
CR: Do you consider yourself "the other woman"?
Rebecca: No, I do not consider myself the other woman. To be perfectly honest I don't have a real legitimate reason why I don't. I guess because he puts in all the effort in making sure I don't see him acting a certain way with her, I don't necessarily look at myself as the other woman. If that was who I was, then things would unfold differently because I would openly tolerate more and he would be more blatant about certain things.
CR: If things work out your way, how does this story end?
Rebecca: That is a very difficult question to answer. So let me start by stating that we clearly would have trust issues given the circumstances. However, I would be lying if I said I am not interested in taking steps toward something permanent with him. So I guess the best way to answer the question is to say that in my fairy tale world we would be exclusively together.
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