Thursday, October 15, 2009

Cupid's Chronicles::Candace: Is it Me?



I am so pissed people!!! You all remember that "hot" guy that I met a couple of weeks back right? Well, we've been talking quite often but we haven't seen each other since our initial encounter. So, he finally asked when he would see me again and I'm thinking YES!!! THEN this asshole messes up the moment by asking am I going to treat?! Okay, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and assumed it was a bad joke but NO ten minutes later he brings it up again! He says "no really, where are you taking me?" I'm sorry but I must be honest, I completely lost it! Why would he assume that I was going to wine and dine him? He didn't even suggest we go dutch! I always thought it was understood that the man treats but lately I'm noticing the tide has turned and I DON'T LIKE IT! Make no mistake, I am more than capable of paying for his dinner x10. If we were established I would have no issue but on the first date?!!! It just annoys me that men don't want to be men these days! Okay I'm done venting I just had to get that off my breasts lol. If he only knew he was going to get the best XXX of his life for dessert! I was sooo looking foward to it :( Okay I'm desperate maybe he still will get some dessert. Thanks for being my virtual therapy people!!!!

7 comments:

  1. " Men don't know how to be men these days" Damn I'd say that's a bit harsh it's only dinner.

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  2. I had a similiar experience, so I never called him back...what happened to a guy being a gentleman?

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  3. correction "boyz" dont know how to be MEN!!! we dont have enuff papa's raising our boyz to manifest into Mighty Men of Valour!!! so the lack of devalues their morals and they think w/ there third head.... ok now i'm gettin pissed ..... dont get me started on a venting frenzy....Stand firm ladies, dont come off the duckets until they prove themselves worthy! smdh!

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  4. Pinky and the BrainOctober 21, 2009 at 5:13 PM

    I agree with the above comment. Your dating boys Candace...

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  5. Sadly this experience is not uncommon. We (human kind) think that the older we get that people's mentality will grow as well. Unfortunately that is not the case.

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  6. all i have to say is be more selective in the men you chose. I always tell my friends looks can be decieving, what looks good on the outside may not always be good for you on the inside.

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